Am I worth the fight??
Nothing is perfect… never has been. Marriage, relationships, love, nothing is safe. To ever be so complacent to think just cause…that your relationship is safe is to be naive. When even in your wrongdoing, there is this small feeling or thought that maybe if a valid fight was put up, maybe that’s the security you needed. See, when everything is over, then the reality comes to the front. How could that person you were with not have an inkling of fight in them about their marriage or relationship. Well, from a man’s perspective, maybe that significant other was just waiting on it to end. Maybe they had some else on the bench. Maybe they were waiting so they could hop into the field. You know what one of the most bullshit statements to hear from someone’s mouth…”I am going to work on myself.” Being alone brings clear thoughts. You start to fill in the pieces to the puzzle. They show you you’re not worth the fight, and the worst part is that you have someone who is fighting harder for someone who is not theirs.